As far back as I can remember, I have been hearing about my mother’s twin sister grand children, Graci and Given. Both children are living and thriving with Autism.
At a family gathering this past Christmas in Cushing, Oklahoma, I had the unique privilege of meeting Graci and Given. I found them both to be engaging, intelligent, playful, and lovable. Adorable like all kids.
In recognition of World Autism Awareness Day I thought I would share a few wonderful family photos of Graci and Given a long with their remarkable mom, Michelle.
Ellen Notbohn, an award winning author and columnist in 2012 wrote an article entitled, “10 Things Every Child With Autism Wishes You Knew.” Number 10 caught my attention.
Love me unconditionally:
Throw away thoughts like, “If you would just—” and “Why can’t you—?” You didn’t fulfill every expectation your parents had for you and you wouldn’t like being constantly reminded of it. I didn’t choose to have autism. Remember that it’s happening to me, not you. Without your support, my chances of growing up to be successful and independent are slim. With your support and guidance, the possibilities are broader than you might think.
Three words we both need to live by: Patience. Patience. Patience.
View my autism as a different ability rather than a disability. Look past what you may see as limitations and see my strengths. I may not be good at eye contact or conversation, but have you noticed that I don’t lie, cheat at games, or pass judgment on other people?
I rely on you. All that I might become won’t happen without you as my foundation. Be my advocate, be my guide, love me for who I am, and we’ll see how far I can go.
What is World Autism Day:
World Autism Awareness Day is observed on 2 April every year since 2008. It was designated by the United Nations General Assembly resolution “62/139. World Autism Awareness Day”; adopted on 18 December 2007, it was proposed by Qatar, and supported by all member states.[1][2][3][4] The resolution had four main components:
•the establishment of 2 April as WAAD
•participation of UN organizations, member states, NGOs and all private & public organizations in WAAD
•raise awareness of autism on all levels in society
•to ask the UN Secretary-General to deliver this message to member states and all other UN organs.[3]
Autism Ontario celebrates World Autism Awareness Day by “Raising a Flag” for autism. Municipalities around Ontario raise a flag to raise awareness for autism in their region.[5]
In 2014 WAAD coincided with Onesie Wednesday, a day created by the National Autistic Society to encourage people in England, Wales and Northern Ireland to show their support for anyone on the autistic spectrum. By wearing a onesie or pyjamas, participants are saying, “it’s all right to be different”.[6]
Contributing: Michael Reel, ReelUrbanNews.com and Ellen Notbohn “10 Things Every Child With Autism Wishes You Knew”
